Classes – Dear Miss Velvet

Master Velvet is an enthusiastic educator who believes that knowledge is power. Continuing to look closely at these things we do and what drives us strengthens our capabilities and relationships. Velvet enjoys the opportunity to facilitate these conversations. Below is a list of her current offerings.

Please contact her if you are interested in a topic not listed.

Building Your Personal Kinky Character Sheet

You know you’re an expert flogger, or perhaps tea service is your jam; but have you considered how your own unique mixture of background, experiences, and personality traits are part of what you have to offer? Have you ever thought about how these combine with our values, skills, and life obligations to form our kink identity? In this class, we will use the paradigm of the character sheet to help us take a look at how the elements of our personal foundation inform our availability as a partner and community member.

3 hour intensive

All Eyes on Me: The Subtle Art of Centered Dominance

Being the Dominant of every s-type's dreams isn't about your flashy flogger skills or ability to demand service in three languages. Instead, Dominance that inspires both dirty daydreams and enduring surrender is the result of a centered, consistent state of being. Join Master Velvet as she guides you on a journey of self-discovery that can provide you with keys to unlock the confident, centered Dominant within.

1 to 1.5 hours

Is M/s Right for Me? An Introduction to Master/slave Relationships for the New and Curious

When we first start out in the community, we often encounter folks that use words like Master/slave to describe their relationship. As we spend more time around people using those words, we can often become confused because people use the same words to describe relationships that seem, from the outside, entirely different in appearance and interaction.

In this introductory discussion, we will discuss the basics of Master/slave relationships and how to tell if a Master/slave relationship is right for you. Topics will include basic definitions, gender inclusivity, starting out as M/s, finding an M/s relationship if you’re unpartnered, and ways to transform existing non M/s relationships into M/s relationships.

1 hour

A Journey Begins with a Single Step

Imagine starting a journey without a plan; your trip is likely to be riddled with missteps and miscalculations! Your path is much clearer with a stated purpose and direction, and yet many of us begin walking our kink and Leather paths blindly. Now imagine you have a map and a compass to guide you, such that your journey and relationships are enriched and strengthened. In this interactive workshop of self-discovery and self-knowledge, Master Velvet will introduce you to some tools to help illuminate your way including discovering your core values and crafting your personal mission statement.

1.5 hours

Circling: Discovering Yourself Through the Eyes of Others

The practice of Circling has been referred to as Interrelational Meditation. It is a vulnerable hyperawareness and sharing of how we are experiencing the moment of now, as well as an opportunity to connect with others' experience of the same moment. In this introduction to circling, we will cultivate a connection to ourselves and one another as we drop into the present moment in our bodies, minds, and souls. We will finish the class by discussing how some of the skills honed in the practice can be used to improve and enhance our power exchange relationships.

1.5 hours to 3 hour intensive

Rituals, Protocols, and Other Forms of Amusement

Rituals and protocols serve as foundational pillars in many power exchange relationships. They can foster a sense of security and structure by establishing clear boundaries, communication methods, and expectations. When they are carefully curated and maintained, they can also serve as a source of delight that brings joy and connection across the slash. Join Master Velvet in this exploration of creating, maintaining, and refreshing these rituals to make your dynamic shine. Come prepared to share from you own experiences, as we learn best from each other!

1 to 1.5 hours

Orchestrating Your Scene: Idea to Execution

Like orchestrating a piece of music, developing an idea into a scene involves both creative and pragmatic considerations that can impact the end experience for all of the players involved. Open negotiation, crafting the scene, preparation, plan execution, aftercare, and postmortem each play their part in meeting everyone’s needs. In this class, we will explore some of the elements that can go into preparing and making your scene uniquely yours to pluck the strings of your partner(s)' ego and emotions.

1 hour

Luscious Lacerations for Lustful Lunatics: Intro to Cutting with Scalpels

Not for the squeamish, come dip your toe into the crimson water of cuttings and squish it between your toes. From simple pain, to intense S/M connection, to body modification, to ritual purity, and other points in between, cutting with scalpels offers ample opportunities to explore all of the realms that play allows. Topics will include preparation, materials, safety, and aftercare. Class will conclude (time permitting) with a cutting demonstration to satisfy your, and her, bloodlust.

1.5 hour

Speculums, Sounds, and Scalpels, Oh My! Infiltrating the Mind and Body with Medical Play

Not just playing doctor in the dungeon, medical play encompasses a wide array of play styles, toys, and activities. Medical play is much more than violating existing (or freshly made) orifices, and when done correctly, it offers a way to deepen the intimate connection that occurs when we exchange power. In this presentation, we will discuss a variety of play ideas for all genders.

1 hours

I Want You Under My Skin: An Introduction to Sensuous Needle Play

Needle play often has a reputation as a heavy form of play reserved for experienced and heavy players. More than just edge play, needle play can be a pathway to a sensuous and profound connection with the right partner. Join Master Velvet as she demystifies needle play and provides an introduction to getting under the skin of the one you love. Topics will include safety, scene preparation, materials needed, scene planning, a demo, and ideas for you to take with you to build your own scene.

1.5 hours