Head Space Do you recognize when you’re in a headspace? Is there really Top/sub-space? What is “Drop?” Headspace is unique and personal as a person’s laugh; we each experience it differently. Subspace might feel like being spellbound by sensations to one person, floating on waves of ecstasy for another, falling into a trancelike state for […]
Feeling Safe Why do I feel safest when I am dominated? This can be a complicated question for many, the answer to which can be found in when you seek out that comfort. Do you seek it out when you feel threatened? Those who feel powerless in their world sometimes seek out someone they see
Control I can’t give up my control, it feels like ANYTHING could go wrong and I couldn’t stop it. You’ve done your homework, you’ve vetted your person, you’ve negotiated in good faith, and you’ve established your boundaries and safewords. So…what’s the worst that could happen? Seriously. Focus on what your fear really is and challenge
Bondage Why do people like to be tied up and bound? Bondage is a very personal thing, but many people who enjoy being bound report some common themes. Some find great comfort in the pressure of the restraints, almost as if they were a comfortable hug or a tightly wrapped blanket. For those who enjoy